AyouBob wrote:
AmericanMum wrote:
My 21-year old stepson. He only calls the house or my husband when he wants money.(I am not exxaggerating!) He just tried hitting up for money over the weekend. My husband just called me on my mobile that stepson would be calling me to ask me if I could get £40 out of the bank for him so he can take his pregnant girlfriend out tonight. (we're kind of broke until payday on Friday and I need to buy some groceries tomorrow) So as I'm talking to my husband on the mobile the landline rang but I didn't get to it in time. So now the husband is all pissy with me. Guess what? I'm tired of being treated like my stepson's personal ATM!
DH was pissy because you DIDN'T get him £40? I though he was calling you to warn you that he was going try and hit you up. Wow. I'd be more than a bit PO'd.
Yeah, I could hear it in his voice and then he did the passive aggressive thing, "Well, I'll leave it with you whether or not you want to lend him the money ..." Okay, we've been really good about when he's truly hard up for grocery money or topping up his electicity card in his flat. We were always lending stepson money. (and in his defense he does pay us back later on down the road and not in his defense I've been told on good authority, i.e. his best mate's girlfriend who I work with, that he uses money he borrows on something else ...) But you know what? If dh and I don't have money to go out (which is often) we stay home. This kid is an adult and has a child on the way and it's time for him to be responsible which means staying home when you can't afford to go out.
I'm glad I have validation for being p.o'ed!